• Grimy@lemmy.world
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    After running away from her first marriage (she was married at 13). She finally got a divorce and then was told to marry her cousin who was literally coming out of prison.

    How can someone care so little for their own kids. Absolutely vile.

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      For the same reason that American Christians would beat a gay person to death and then argue the gay panic defense in court.

      They’ve been raised to believe that these made-up rules for their imaginary friend are a more important consideration than the reality right in front of them.

      • Microtonal_Banana@lemmy.zip
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        Nope. Thats just religious extremism for ya.

        For example 36 white American Christians in Oklahoma just voted against ending child marriage and they quoted the Bible as their reason

        https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/36-oklahoma-republicans-vote-against-child-marriage-ban/ar-AA24bCyP

        "Rep. Derrick Hildebrant quoted Hebrews 13:4, questioning “Hebrews 13:4 – ‘Let marriage be held in honour among all.’ Does ‘among all’ now only mean those who are 18 and older?”

        And here’s another white Christian proposing a bill to give the death penalty to woman who seek abortions. He serves on the board of a church in north carolina.

        “The legislation, backed only by Republican state Representative Keith Kidwell, would classify abortion as first-degree murder and open the right of another person to defend the life of the unborn baby** as they see fit.**”

        https://www.newsweek.com/republican-bill-deadly-force-stop-abortions-north-carolina-12005136

        “Those who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones”

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          You do realize that “Christianity bad” doesn’t mean that “Islam bad” is false, right?

          Both can be true at once.

          I will however dispute that it is a question of extremism. The fact is that a majority of muslims, globally, hold views that I would consider to be misogynistic (feel free to update me on that if there is a more recent global study with the same scope).

          If something is the norm in a group rather than a fringe idea, it can hardly be considered extremism. Given that Islam has many of these misogynistic values close to its’ core, it isn’t particularly shocking either.

          As such, considering the above, I consider Islam to be bad on the whole. Note: this doesn’t mean that someone is inherently “bad” due to being muslim, or that “good” muslims don’t exist - I am acquainted with a few.

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        That’s brainwashing for ya*

        ~25% of all humans are Muslim, do you seriously think every single one agrees with this?
        A good example is that only a tiny part of Christians are pedophiles but you, based on the logic in your comment, think all of them are.
        Islam isn’t the issue, extremism and shitty humans is. The vast majority of Muslims think this is just as fucked up as we do, because the vast majority of humans are just like us.

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        No, that’s people brainwashed by ideology “for ya”. You don’t seem to have the mental capacity to process that, so just try to talk to people you disagree with more, and widen your horizon.

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              You’re right!

              I’ll happily condemn any ideology (not just religious ones) that teaches people it is okay to force underage girls into marriage and murder them when they try to escape.

              Did you have one in mind?

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                  Yes, I was.

                  Disconnecting religion from law & institutions was a brutal process that took centuries here in Europe, and it is very disconcerting to see organized religion exerting an increasing influence in society. In the US it is less “freedom from religion” (like we have here) and more “freedom of religion” (please pick one).

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                More of a question for the two dozen or so people upvoting the comments. Even if they’re trolling (and not just an islamophobe), there’s clearly a fair number of people that think these are reasonable opinions to hold. Getting people to think about the beliefs they hold is an important part of reducing -phobic behavior in general.

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          No, that’s people brainwashed by ideology “for ya”.

          That’s just a long way of saying “islam”