Guys I’m in a slump, I keep having the same fight every time I feel bored and want to go out to do something and I can’t because I don’t know what to do because I don’t even know what kinds of things I can do, like what classification of activity I should pick. And even when I do pick an activity class I’m paralyzed with the decisions regarding how to execute that activity. It’s a 3dimentional puzzle of trying to find what doesn’t make me miserable, is actually available to me, and I understand.

Here is my current list of activity classes, I keep it as an Obsidian Kanban board where each lane is a my opinion. What classifications should I add or if you have any ideas for what specific things I can do I’d really appreciate that too.

I’m based in Brooklyn

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New things

• [ ] Hobbyist Groups Model Building, Gardening Clubs #social
• [ ] Joining Environmental Groups #social

Want to do

• [ ] Volunteering at Charities #social #commitment
• [ ] Calligraphy #lazy #equipment
• [ ] Electronic Circuit Building #equipment #alone
• [ ] Skating Inline, Ice #sport #inside #winter
• [ ] Kickboxing #sport
• [ ] Canoeing #sport #social #outside
• [ ] Volleyball #sport #social #club #outside
• [ ] Handmade Jewelry #equipment #class
• [ ] Robotics #equipment #expensive #alone
• [ ] Electronic Music Production #alone #class
• [ ] Nature Walks for Relaxation #alone
• [ ] Listening to Calming Music #alone
• [ ] Progressive Muscle Relaxation #alone
• [ ] Joining a Film Club #club
• [ ] Community Art Classes #social #class
• [ ] Collage Making #materials
• [ ] Baking as a creative activity #lazy #home #materials
• [ ] Music Composition #lazy
• [ ] Sewing #art #equipment
• [ ] Coffee Latte Art #class #equipment
• [ ] Swimming

Don’t want to do

• [ ] Volunteering for Political Causes #social
• [ ] Participating in Dance Classes #social
• [ ] Joining a Choir or Music Group #social
• [ ] Language Exchange Clubs #social #club
• [ ] Furniture Restoration #expensive #materials #resources
• [ ] Garden Design #outside
• [ ] Film Making #art #equipment
• [ ] Rugby #sport #social #club
• [ ] Lacrosse #sport #social #club #outside
• [ ] Dodgeball #sport #social #club #outside
• [ ] Ultimate Frisbee #sport #social #club #outside
• [ ] Parkour #sport #social #outside
• [ ] Wrestling #sport #social #club #inside
• [ ] Surfing #sport #summer #outside
• [ ] Snowboarding #sport #expensive #winter
• [ ] Skiing Alpine or Cross-Country #sport #expensive #winter
• [ ] Rowing #sport #social #club #outside #hard
• [ ] Gymnastics #sport #social #club #inside #hard
• [ ] Cricket #sport #social #club #outside
• [ ] Basketball #sport #sport #social #club #outside
• [ ] Football/Soccer #sport #social #club #outside
• [ ] Weight Lifting #sport #club #hard
• [ ] Rock Climbing #sport
• [ ] Martial Arts Karate, Judo #sport
• [ ] Dancing various styles #sport #club #social

Planning

• [ ] Volunteer at animal shelter
• [ ] Pottery #art #expensive #equipment
• [ ] Sculpting #art #expensive #equipment

Doing

• [ ] Reading manga #lazy

Will do it again

• [ ] Deep Breathing Exercises #alone
• [ ] Boxing #sport #hard #club #equipment
• [ ] Yoga #sport #inside #alone #club
• [ ] Hiking #sport #outside
• [ ] Swimming #sport #club
• [ ] Spas #lazy #expensive
• [ ] Writing Journaling, Novels, Poetry #art
• [ ] Playing a Musical Instrument #art
• [ ] Attending Networking Events #social
• [ ] Aromatherapy #therapy
• [ ] Massage Therapy
• [ ] Herbal Therapy #therapy
• [ ] Tea Ceremonies #alone
• [ ] Mobile App Development
• [ ] Open Source Contributions
• [ ] Going to a comedy show #outside #lazy

Did it once

• [ ] Photography #art #equipment
• [ ] Joining a Book Club #social
• [ ] Cycling #sport #equipment #outside
• [ ] Drawing #art #skilled
• [ ] Painting #art #equipment
• [ ] Scuba diving

Do it with friends

• [ ] Attending Community Festivals #social
• [ ] Attending Concerts and Live Performances #social
• [ ] Cooking Classes with Friends #social #class #club

Hated it

• [ ] Meditation #alone
• [ ] Running #sport #outside #hard
• [ ] Sitting in Silence

Used to do it but its over

• [ ] Gaming Communities Online or Offline #social
• [ ] Tennis #sport #social #club #outside