Dilara was on her lunch break in the London store where she works when a tall man walked up to her and said: “I swear red hair means you’ve just been heartbroken.”

The man continued the conversation as they both got in a lift, and he asked Dilara for her phone number.

What Dilara did not realise was that the man was secretly filming her on his smart glasses - which look like normal eyewear but have a tiny camera which can record video.

The footage was then posted to TikTok, where it received 1.3m views. “I just wanted to cry,” Dilara, 21, told the BBC.

The man who filmed her, it turned out, had posted dozens of secretly filmed videos to TikTok, giving men tips on how to approach women.

Dilara also found out that her phone number was visible in the video. She then faced a wave of messages and calls.

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    Yes, it is a hidden camera in a pair of glasses, not smart glasses.

    They were pointing out the difference. It would be like someone confusing a camera for a smartphone.

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      It would be like someone confusing a camera for a smartphone.

      Not really. For the purposes of this conversation that doesn’t matter at all. The only things that matter here would be can the glasses film and can anyone tell that at a glance? I don’t care if the glasses can also do Google searches or some shit. That doesn’t necessarily violate my privacy. What violates my privacy is someone filming, without me even having a clue they might be.

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        Not really. For the purposes of this conversation that doesn’t matter at all.

        It does, because the statement that people are taking issue with:

        Smart glasses and hidden cameras are two different products.

        Is objectively correct and that was the only point they were trying to make. They were not claiming that it makes filming okay or that hidden cameras are not a problem.

        The people are not responding to the actual words written by the person, they’re replying the the subtext that they feel was implied.

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          Me: makes point

          Online weirdo: akshually, you’re wrong. Unrelated irrelevant details matter

          You: yeah, ya idiot! It totally matters cuz we said so!

          Edit: checks out completely that your only post on this platform is to claim you weren’t being transphobic and making a big stink about it

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            13 hours ago

            If you get so triggered when people point out that you’re wrong, maybe you should spend more time reading a book and less time trying to be insulting.

            Your comments read like you’re an angsty teenager who is incapable of having a conversation like an adult.

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              13 hours ago

              Yours read like a libertarian from the early 2000s who is definitely okay with some heinous shit but won’t own up to it. Save your projecty reading recommendations for yourself.

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          You get that there is a difference in “I can tell I’m being filmed” and not, right? You get that law is behind technology sometimes, right? Not sure why there’s an argument here.

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            You’re almost always being filmed in public in many places. The courts say it doesn’t matter whether or not you realize it, in the US.

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                The law is always behind technology. There’s no gotcha here. I was just talking about the standard the law has to pass to last, under current interpretation. Lots of laws get passed and then struck down as not meeting the standard of constitutional muster. Just because someone wants to ban something doesn’t mean the law will stand. Thanks for the degredation though.

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          There are many states that have 2-party consent laws regarding being recorded. In my jurisdiction, what the glasshole did might have been illegal. (I’m not a lawyer or judge)

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            Two party consent laws only apply in situations where they would have an expectation of privacy, as in not in public. Much of the whole first amendment auditing community is focused on educating people about this. State laws can’t trump constitutional precedent.