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Cake day: June 10th, 2023

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  • If you think that’s bad, just envision all the physiological and existential issues you’re instilling in them! ( /s!)

    On a serious note I have thought the same thoughts after my interactions with my children.

    In my opinion, the biggest indicators of a good parent to me are: to be present, to always act in your child’s best interests, to always enable your child’s curiosity and wonder, and to know the difference and when to be a parent and when to be a friend them. None are easy.

    I only know you from this post, but if you’re self-aware enough to worry about if you’re supporting your child (or any child, for that matter) and consciously reviewing your decisions to learn how to be better, you’re probably a pretty good parent.

    You got this!

    Good luck, friend.









  • I had the same reaction as a smoker. It’s really not all bad, and as a now non-smoker, it’s great to not wake up the next day to the clothes I wore to the bar smelling like an ashtray, so I now understand the complaints.

    And it saves you, the smoker, money because you’re not chain smoking sitting at the bar anymore.

    At the end of the day, though, a beer drinker sitting next to a wine drinker is a bit different than a smoker sitting next to a non-smoker, so the whole “you’re already at a bar!” argument is pretty disingenuous and doesn’t really go far with me.