

Helping men is possible in many ways that are totally independent of women. Better education from child level on how to process, express, and handle emotions. More spaces for boys and men to bond and do things as a group away from screens. Non commercial third spaces have almost vanished and are needed direly.
making women less biased against dating men that they “don’t need”?
Sounds like a typical incel meme. Almost all (hetero) women want a man as a partner. Even if they don’t necessarily need one to have a career, children, a bank account, live their own lives, and so on. The desire to share their life with a man is certainly there and strong. Maybe not in the basement you retreated to. The outside world is packed full of women looking for a suitable man as a partner.
Sexuality, procreation, and pair bonding are hardwired instincts in humans and still there.
Spend some time in places where actual real women are and listen to them to get a reality check.
There are so many mid 30s to early 40s women desperately looking for a husband to have a family with. That’s when those who thought they didn’t need a man, realize their deeper desire.
Fantastic post!
Elite champagne socialists looking down on the actual desires of the poor and working class.