How many liberal tears in a banana? For scale purposes of course.

You’re describing the political reality and I get that, it’s expedient. But that doesn’t mean it is also moral.

Who would be the servants and sexual submissives if women were free to do as they pleased?

We don’t need to respect their customs. We need to respect their people, including their people’s need for emotional healthy relationships which are often in conflict with elements in their cultures that only feel entitled to dominate.