I mean, the thing is, is that if your ok with that, you do you, but for me, sex isn’t like somthing i do so casually with anyone like that. There’s of course that thing where “men” are supposed to enjoy it, but for me, i had a feeling inside that this was wrong and not the way i enjoy doing things. I mean there was nothing wrong with the stripper she was a nice and i went for a smoke we chatted, but im kinda more like “can i buy you a drink and lets talk” kinda person not “netflix and chill” type of person.
Sounds like you might enjoy kyabakura in Japan more than strip clubs. Dudes just go in there and drink expensive liquor and chat with pretty women. Although, I think they can get quite pricey.
I mean, the thing is, is that if your ok with that, you do you, but for me, sex isn’t like somthing i do so casually with anyone like that. There’s of course that thing where “men” are supposed to enjoy it, but for me, i had a feeling inside that this was wrong and not the way i enjoy doing things. I mean there was nothing wrong with the stripper she was a nice and i went for a smoke we chatted, but im kinda more like “can i buy you a drink and lets talk” kinda person not “netflix and chill” type of person.
Sounds like you might enjoy kyabakura in Japan more than strip clubs. Dudes just go in there and drink expensive liquor and chat with pretty women. Although, I think they can get quite pricey.